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Keep an ‘arms length’ when transacting with family members

Although the old adage warns against doing business with friends or relatives, many of us do, especially where personal or real property is involved. While the IRS generally takes a very discerning look at most financial transactions between family members, you can avoid some of the common tax traps if you play by a few simple rules.

Of course, because there are so many types of potential transactions, there are few hard and fast rules that apply across the board. If you’re thinking of selling property to a family member, or buying from a family member, you must evaluate the potential negative tax consequences before agreeing to enter into a transaction. In a worst case scenario, the IRS could set aside the transaction as if it never took place and whatever gain, or loss, you have, would evaporate.

“Arms-length” transactions

The IRS is on alert for transactions between family members because often they are not “arms-length” transactions. Conducting a transaction at “arms-length” means that pricing is established as if the seller and buyer were independent parties. To be considered an “arm’s length” transaction, the seller must genuinely wants to sell his or her property at a fair market price and the buyer must offer a fair price. The transaction cannot be motivated primarily by tax avoidance. Transactions between unrelated parties, for example when you buy your new car from an automobile dealer, are “arms length” transactions. The seller is in the business of selling and the buyer is an independent third party.

Transactions between family members – say, the transfer of real estate or other property — frequently may look, at first glance, to be not quite at arms length. Did the buyer make a fair offer? Did the seller accept a fair price? Was the sale really a gift? The rules allow the IRS to set aside abusive transactions as shams and impose penalties.

Dealing with your children

Tax problems frequently arise in transactions between parents and children. Let’s say that you agree to sell your vacation home to your daughter. If your daughter pays the first and only price you gave, some warning bells may sound. Did your selling price reflect the fair market value of the property? Did the buyer investigate, or seek an appraisal, of the value of the property. Did comparable properties sell at similar prices?

If you want to claim a loss from the sale, don’t count on it. The tax rules specifically disallow in most situations a loss from the sale – or exchange – of property when the sale or exchange is between members of a family -whether or not you can prove that the price is fair. The IRS’s definition of family is pretty broad for this purpose. It includes brothers and sisters (whether by the whole or half blood), spouses, ancestors, and lineal descendants. Ancestors include parents and grandparents, and lineal descendants includes children and grandchildren. Thus, nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles and in-laws are excluded. Stepparents, stepchildren and stepgrandchildren are excluded, but adopted children are treated the same as natural children in all respects

If you claim a gain on the sale, expect some questions from the IRS if your return is audited. The IRS can claim that you recognized too little gain, hoping to tax the rest as a taxable gift. In selling property to a family member, you should build a file of comparable prices in order to be ready for the IRS on an audit of your return.

Divorcing couples also under scrutiny

Divorce spawns many tax consequences. Often, a court will direct one spouse to transfer property to the other spouse. Generally, no gain or loss is recognized when property is transferred incident to the divorce. Problems develop over the last three words, “incident to the divorce.” If the transaction is not “incident to the divorce” and one spouse claims large losses, the IRS will examine carefully whether the transaction was genuine.

Gain or loss also is not recognized when a transfer takes place between spouses who are still married, even if they don’t file a joint return, and whether or not their relationship is amicable or hostile.

Be proactive to avoid future inquiries

Selling to, or buying from, a family member shouldn’t be avoided just because the rules are complex. First, recognize that your transaction may be subject to special scrutiny by the IRS. If it is, you can’t go on this road alone without professional backup but you can be proactive by anticipating potential challenges and by taking some simple, common sense steps:

Be prepared. Because documentation is very important to the IRS and plays a very big part in whether a claim will be allowed, it is important that you document your related party transaction every step of the way. All agreements should be in written format and corroborating evidence (such as comparable price lists) should be retained.

Invest in an independent appraisal. Unless you are a professional in selling your particular property, let an expert place a value on it. Having this sort of independent third party verify the reasonableness of the transaction price is exactly the type of documentation the IRS likes to see.

Weigh alternatives to relinquishing total control over the property. Consider “gifting” the property to a family member instead of selling it – the positive tax consequences of gifting are often overlooked.

As illustrated above, there is absolutely nothing wrong with engaging in financial transactions with related persons – as long as all parties involved are aware of the added scrutiny the transaction may bring and properly prepare for such an event. If you are contemplating such a transaction, please feel free to contact the office for additional guidance.

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